We all know how women of these days have been blamed for being too “money conscious”.
The thing is, it’s not about requesting for money, it is about how you go about it.
The duty therefore lies on a woman to also come up with the best way to get whatever she needs without being added to the line of ladies considered to be gold diggers.
The only time a man might call you a gold digger is when you prove to him you love his money more than himself, aside that, he will never see you as a gold digger even if he spends all his life savings on you. It’s all about how you go about it.
Ladies who really know how to get money from their guy, don’t even ask for it before it’s provided. You should understand the ideologies of guys to get along smoothly with them.
If you really want to know how to easily get your man to spend on you, kindly come with us let’s show you some simple ways to get it unconsciously.
1. Be Faithful
No man will want to know that the woman he spends on also cheats and actually spends his money on another man.
Being faithful gives a man the confidence to spend more on you because he has the assurance you love him and not his money and so spending on you doesn’t really affect him and he also knows giving to you will definitely come back to him and that’s love. You can’t be a cheating woman, playing many men and expect a man to still spend on you when he finds out.
2. Be Loyal
Every one of us expects the person closest to us to be loyal. Each one of us definitely loves someone who supports and is ready to do anything to be with us. That’s human nature.
If you deny your guy in front of your friends, I don’t think he will be eager to spend on you or give you money when he finds out. Let him have that confidence in you.
3. Help Him Pay Some of the Bills
You don’t live with him but you are always visit him at his place, you’re both working or you have your own business, what really stops you from paying some of his bills? When you do it, apart from him appreciating you the more, he’s likely to pay you back in threefold when he has money.
When you go to the restaurant on a date, what stops you from paying the bill? These little gestures actually get to a guy and so when he’s spending on you, he has the confidence he’s not wasting his money because you’re worth it.
4. Earn Money Yourself
To be able to handle point 3 above, you need to be financially stable yourself. These days, guys love ladies who are hardworking, no guy wants a lazy lady who sits her ass home and does nothing. Same way, a lady wouldn’t want a guy who is lazy and does nothing.
When you’re working and making your own money, guys respect you the more and coupled with the fact you are loyal to him as highlighted in point 6 will make him even spend more on you because he might feel intimidated to think you’re making enough and so what he’s even giving you is not enough.
As a Lady, if you’re financially stable and do not demand too much money from your guy and handle your own bills, you get maximum respect from him.
5. Buy Him Expensive Gifts Too
Talking about buying him gifts, we are not talking about the regular routine of buying Cards, Underwear and Handkerchiefs, Hell NO!!!!
What really stops you as a woman from also buying him a phone, a Shoe Classy Wristwatch or even an expensive perfume? Buying him expensive gifts actually helps put your bid high. This is because when it is his time to also buy you something, he’s forced to buy you more.
If you keep buying him handkerchiefs as gifts, he will also keep buying you cheap bras. Lol
6. Wake Him Up With a Fellatio
Yes! Most people in relationships have it, but being creative with it is what makes the difference. Most men love fellatio and will always demand it during foreplay but what they love most is surprising them with it.
Try doing it when he’s asleep and let him wake up to it and it shouldn’t be once, it should be something you should do regularly and you will be surprised what he will buy for you without you asking. Not only will he spend on you, you will always be on his mind and that’s the secret. When you’re always on his mind, it makes him want to buy things for you at the slightest opportunity. That’s the point.
7. Give Him Whenever He Needs It
It is an undeniable fact that men love it and this is why, a woman has a menstrual cycle, men don’t. A woman sheds her eggs in a month, men on the other hand have active “eggs” from the day they are conceived till they die. This sperms are active all year round and so it is really something men love.
Now “IT” comes with a lot of advantages and one of them is, it increases a man’s happiness and when a man is happy, he easily gives. Aside that, it also bonds the two of you together the more and so when you demand something, he surely knows you deserve it. But not when you don’t want him to touch you but you want to have all his money or expect him to spend all he has on you then obviously you will be seen as a gold digger and it will be difficult for him to spend on you.
Even if you’re married to him and you deprive him of IT, getting money from him becomes a big issue, you can ask your mama about that.
8. Respect Yourself
Everything you’ve read so far boils down to this point.
Respecting yourself will help you achieve it easily. You can’t come cheap and expect to be treated expensive, it doesn’t work that way. For instance, if a man invites you on a date, you don’t come with your whole family and friends and expect him to buy food for all of them, that’s wrong
You’re clearly revealing how hungry your family and friends are and if you’re thinking you’re actually doing it to drain him, then I’m sorry, you’re rather disgracing yourself. Even if he’s able to afford such meal for all of you, all he will want from you is s*x and that’s it, nothing special, when he gets it, to him, it’s a done deal.
It is wise to come alone and attempt to even pay the bill, a gentleman will feel embarrassed when you try doing that and will definitely offer to pay and beside that, you will earn his respect because he will realize you don’t come cheap and to be able to have a lady like you, he will need to pay more. It’s as simple as that.
Have you tried any of the above points before now or you have some other tested and trusted point used by you???
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